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Preparing for marriage: Moving in together

Combining homes is a project of its own: what to keep, how to share chores and how to split costs.

The key points

  • Agree how to split rent and bills
  • Decide whose furniture stays
  • Share chores by ownership, not reminders
  • Make one space feel like both of you

Quick answers

Is it rude to not give a plus-one?

Not if you apply a clear rule to everyone. Partners who are married, engaged or living together should always be invited by name.

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