After the wedding3 min read
Wedding thank-you notes: timing, wording and examples
When to send them, what to write for cash, registry gifts, group gifts and guests who couldn’t come — plus a system to finish them.
Free tool · After the wedding: Thank-you note writer & tracker
Warm, specific thank-you wording for every kind of gift — cash, registry, gift cards, guests who couldn’t come, your wedding party — plus a simple tracker.
Write a note
Dear Aunt Maria and Uncle Joe, Thank you so much for the thoughtful gift. It’s already become a favorite in our home. It meant so much to have you with us to celebrate. With love, Maya & Daniel
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How to use it
- 01Choose what you’re thanking them for and add the details.
- 02Copy the note and personalize it in your own handwriting.
- 03Add guests to the tracker and tick them off as you send.
Good to know
How long do you have to send wedding thank-you notes?
Most etiquette guides suggest within about three months.
What do you write in a thank-you note for money?
Thank them for their generosity, say what you’ll use it for, and mention their presence or kindness.
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