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Ceremony music
Four moments need music: prelude, wedding-party processional, final entrance and recessional.
- 20–30 minutes of prelude
- A processional for the party
- A separate entrance song
- An upbeat recessional
The wedding day · 5 subtopics: Wedding music & songs
Music for every moment: prelude, processional, recessional, cocktail hour, dinner, first dance and the party — with a band, DJ or playlist.
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First dance and parent dance songs
Choose songs that mean something to you, and check the lyrics all the way through.
- A song with a story
- Check every lyric
- Edit the length
- Tell the DJ the exact version
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Band, DJ or playlist
Bands bring presence, DJs bring range, playlists need a person in charge and good speakers.
- Watch real performance videos
- Ask about MC duties
- Playlists need sound equipment
- Plan ceremony sound separately
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Must-play and do-not-play lists
Give your DJ or band a short list of must-plays and do-not-plays, then trust them to read the room.
- 10–15 must-plays
- A clear do-not-play list
- Song requests policy
- Cultural songs and their timing
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Cultural music
Dhol players, mariachi, the hora, bagpipes or a church choir — book specialists early.
- Book specialists early
- Agree timing in the schedule
- Sound limits at the venue
- Explain traditions to guests
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