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Suit or tuxedo? Renting or buying? A groom’s style guide

The difference between a suit and a tuxedo, colors by season and formality, fit, and how to decide whether to rent or buy.

A groom buttoning a black tuxedo jacket, in black and white
Photo · Alvin Mahmudov / Unsplash

The difference is in the details: tuxedos have satin or grosgrain facings on the lapels and trim; suits use the same fabric throughout. From there, formality and how you’ll wear it again decide the rest.

Suit vs tuxedo

SuitTuxedo
LapelsSame fabric as the jacketSatin or grosgrain facing
TrousersPlainSatin stripe down the side
TieNeck tie or bow tieUsually bow tie
FormalityCasual to formalFormal, black tie

Colors by setting

  • Navy: almost any wedding, day or evening.
  • Charcoal and grey: versatile; lighter greys for summer.
  • Black: evening and formal.
  • Green, burgundy, tan, light blue: great for outdoor, seasonal or relaxed weddings.

Dress codes for the groom

Invitation saysWear
Black tieA tuxedo
Formal / black tie optionalA tuxedo or a dark suit
CocktailA suit
Garden, beach or casualA lighter suit in linen or tropical wool, lighter colors

Rent or buy?

Renting is convenient for one-off tuxedos and for groomsmen who want to match. Buying costs more up front but lets you tailor it properly and wear it again. Some grooms buy their own and rent for the groomsmen.

Fit checklist

Finish the look

Shoes that are broken in, socks that suit the trousers, braces or a belt (not both), a pocket square, cufflinks and the boutonnière. Match your leather colors, and keep one small detail personal — a watch, a tie clip, or something borrowed.

Timeline

Reserve rentals about three to four months ahead and pick them up a few days before the wedding. If you’re buying, allow four to six months so there is time for tailoring.

General information, not legal, medical or financial advice. Confirm details with your vendors, venue, officiant and local authorities.

Questions people ask

Is it cheaper to rent or buy a tux?

Renting is usually cheaper for one wear; buying is better value if you’ll wear it several times.

Can the groom wear a different color from the groomsmen?

Yes — many grooms wear a different jacket, tie or boutonnière to stand out.

Should groomsmen match the groom?

They can match exactly or coordinate. Many grooms stand out with a different jacket, tie or boutonnière.

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