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Being a wedding guest: What to wear

Follow the dress code, avoid white, and choose shoes for grass, sand or dancing.

The key points

  • Decode the dress code
  • Avoid white and bridal looks
  • Check the culture: red, black, white
  • Shoes for the venue

Fall guest outfits

Jewel tones, midi dresses, a smart coat; suits in warmer fabrics.

Summer guest outfits

Linen and light colors, sun protection, breathable suits.

Men’s guest attire

Suit and tie for formal or cocktail; chinos and a blazer for casual.

Read more about what to wear

Quick answers

What is cocktail attire for a wedding?

For most people, a knee-to-midi-length dress, dressy jumpsuit or smart separates; or a suit and tie.

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