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Being a wedding guest: Wedding gifts

Registry, cash or an experience — give what fits your budget and relationship; a warm card matters as much.

The key points

Registry is easiest
Cash is widely welcomed
Smaller gifts if you traveled far
Group gifts are fine

Read more about wedding gifts

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Guests & familyWedding gift etiquette: how much to give and what to write

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After the weddingWedding thank-you notes: timing, wording and examples

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Guests & familyHow to build a wedding registry: what to add, when, and how many gifts

Quick answers

Should we include registry information on the invitation?

Put it on your wedding website instead. Word-of-mouth and the website are enough.

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How much should you spend on a wedding gift?

Whatever fits your budget; many guests spend about $75–$150, more for close family.

Guests & familyAll questions

Is it OK to give cash as a wedding gift?

Yes. Many couples prefer cash, especially if they’re saving for a home or honeymoon.

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How long do you have to send a wedding gift?

Traditionally a few months after the wedding, though sooner is kinder.

Guests & familyAll questions

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