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Bridal & couples showers: Couples showers

A shower for both partners, with friends from both sides — often an evening party rather than a lunch.

The key points

  • Invite both partners’ friends
  • Evening drinks or a barbecue
  • Games for mixed groups
  • Gifts for the home

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What is a couples shower?

A shower that celebrates both partners, with guests from both sides.

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Do you have to have a bridal shower?

No. It is optional, and many couples skip it, combine it with another event, or have a couples shower instead.

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