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Cultural & religious weddings: South Asian weddings

Mehndi, sangeet, haldi, baraat, the ceremony and the reception — often across several days, and different in every family.

The key points

  • Several events over a few days
  • Bright colors; red is often the bride’s
  • Cash gifts are common
  • Explain events on your website

Indian weddings

Hindu ceremonies include the jaimala, kanyadaan and pheras around a sacred fire.

Pakistani and Muslim weddings

The nikah is the marriage contract; the walima is the reception after.

Sikh weddings

The anand karaj, with four laavan around the Guru Granth Sahib.

Guests new to the tradition

Ask which events you are invited to, wear bright colors and avoid white.

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Quick answers

What is the difference between a nikah and a walima?

The nikah is the Islamic marriage ceremony and contract; the walima is a celebratory reception hosted by the groom’s family afterward.

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What do you wear to a mehndi?

Bright, festive clothing — yellows, greens, pinks and oranges are popular. Avoid white.

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How long is an Indian wedding?

Often two to four days of events, though many couples now host fewer.

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Can non-South Asian guests wear traditional clothes?

Usually yes — hosts are often delighted. Choose respectful, festive styles, and ask the couple if you’re unsure.

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