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Family roles, children & blended families: Children at the wedding

All children, family only or adults-only — choose one rule and apply it kindly. If kids come, plan for them.

The key points

  • Address invitations to exactly who is invited
  • Kids’ table and activities
  • A babysitter room for later
  • Babies in arms: decide and say so

Quick answers

Is it rude to have a child-free wedding?

No. It’s widely accepted; just communicate it clearly and kindly.

Family & childrenAll questions

Are nursing babies an exception to an adults-only wedding?

Many couples make one. If you do, say so clearly on the invitation or website so parents can plan.

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