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Reception & entertainment: Toasts and speeches

Two to four speeches of three to five minutes each: one story, a wish and a raised glass.

The key points

Who speaks and in what order
Three to five minutes each
Printed notes are fine
No embarrassing secrets

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A man in a beige suit giving a speech with a microphone and notes

Reception, food & musicHow to give a great wedding speech (maid of honor, best man, parents)

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Do we need champagne for a toast?

No. Many couples let guests toast with whatever they’re drinking.

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How long should a wedding speech be?

Three to five minutes.

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Is it okay to read a wedding speech from notes?

Absolutely. Printed cards in a large font are better than memorizing — just look up often.

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What does the maid of honor do on the wedding day?

Helps the bride get ready, carries the emergency kit, holds the bouquet, witnesses the license if needed and gives a toast.

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