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Rehearsal dinner & wedding weekend: The ceremony rehearsal

A 45–60 minute run-through of the processional, positions, readings and recessional, usually the day before.

The key points

Officiant or coordinator leads
Practice the processional order
Bring the license and program
Know who holds the rings

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Showers, parties & weekendThe rehearsal dinner: who pays, who’s invited and what to say

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How long does a wedding rehearsal take?

Usually 45–60 minutes, depending on the size of the wedding party and the ceremony.

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Who pays for the rehearsal dinner?

Traditionally the groom’s family. Today it is whoever offers, often the couple.

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Who is invited to the rehearsal dinner?

The wedding party, immediate family, the officiant and anyone in the ceremony, plus partners.

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What do you wear to a rehearsal dinner?

Usually cocktail or smart casual; check with the hosts.

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