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Vow renewals & milestone anniversaries: Planning a vow renewal

A renewal is a celebration, not a legal ceremony: it can be anything from a dinner to a full party.

The key points

No license needed
Anyone can officiate
Any size or style
Often on a milestone anniversary

When to renew

Milestones like 10, 25 or 50 years — or any time that feels right.

Who hosts

The couple, or children hosting for parents.

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Married lifeHow to plan a vow renewal (with ceremony ideas)

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Do you need a license for a vow renewal?

No. A renewal is symbolic, so there is no license or legal requirement.

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Who officiates a vow renewal?

Anyone you choose: a friend, one of your children, a faith leader or a professional celebrant.

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Do guests bring gifts to a vow renewal?

Gifts aren’t expected. Many couples ask for none or suggest a donation.

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