A registry makes gift-giving easy for guests and avoids duplicates. A good one has a mix of price points, things you will genuinely use and a clear, polite way to find it.
When to set it up
Create it before your engagement party or shower, and keep adding until a few weeks before the wedding. Shower guests often shop two to six weeks ahead.
How much to register for
A common rule of thumb is two to three items per guest, so there are still choices left for late shoppers. Include plenty of gifts under $50 and between $50 and $150, plus a few larger items people can buy together.
What to add
- Kitchen: cookware, a good knife set, a stand mixer, everyday dishes.
- Home: bedding, towels, a vacuum, storage.
- Entertaining: glassware, serving platters, a grill or outdoor furniture.
- Experiences: honeymoon activities, a cooking class, a museum membership.
- Funds: a home down-payment fund or a honeymoon fund.
One store or several?
Many couples use a universal registry that combines items from several stores with cash funds, so guests see everything on one page. Compare shipping, return policies and any completion discount before choosing.
After the wedding
Track every gift as it arrives, and send thank-you notes promptly — the thank-you note writer helps you personalize each one.
General information, not legal, medical or financial advice. Confirm details with your vendors, venue, officiant and local authorities.
Questions people ask
When should you create a wedding registry?
About six months before the wedding, or before your engagement party or shower.
How many items should be on a wedding registry?
A common guide is two to three items per guest, at a range of prices.
Is it OK to ask for cash on a wedding registry?
Yes. Cash and honeymoon funds are widely accepted; say what the money is for.
