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Proposals & getting engaged: Telling people and announcing

Tell the people who matter most personally — parents, children, best friends — before anything goes online. Then share publicly whenever you are ready.

The key points

  • Call or visit close family before posting
  • Agree together when to announce and how
  • Prepare simple answers to “When’s the wedding?”
  • Don’t promise roles or invitations yet

Engagement announcement ideas

A photo with the ring, a short caption, or a printed card for grandparents.

Questions you will hear

“When, where, how big?” — “We are enjoying being engaged and will plan soon” is a complete answer.

Quick answers

What should you include in an engagement announcement post?

A photo and a sentence or two is plenty. Leave out the wedding date, venue and guest list until you have decided them.

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How soon after getting engaged should you announce it?

There is no deadline. A day or two of privacy is common, and many couples tell family first, then share publicly within a week.

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