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Proposals & getting engaged: Your first weeks engaged

Celebrate before you plan. Insure the ring, enjoy the moment, then have three conversations: how the day should feel, what you can spend and roughly how many people.

The key points

  • Insure and size the ring
  • Take a week before any bookings
  • Agree how the day should feel
  • Set a budget range and a guest range

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Two hands held together showing a diamond engagement ringJust engagedJust engaged? Your first 30 days, in the right order

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What should we do first after getting engaged?

Celebrate, tell your people, insure the ring, then have three conversations: how it should feel, what you can spend and roughly how many guests. The first 30 days guide covers the order.

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