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Engagement rings & wedding bands: Choosing a diamond

Cut drives sparkle; color and clarity matter less than most people think; carat is weight, not size. An independent grading report protects you on any significant stone.

The key points

  • Prioritize cut for brightness
  • Near-colorless looks white in most settings
  • Eye-clean clarity is enough
  • Ask for an independent grading report

Lab-grown vs natural

Both are real diamonds. Lab-grown usually costs much less for the same look; natural carries rarity and tradition.

Diamond shapes

Round, oval, cushion, emerald, pear, marquise, princess and radiant. Elongated shapes look larger for their weight.

Read more about choosing a diamond

Quick answers

What is the 10th anniversary gift?

Tin or aluminum traditionally, and diamond jewelry on the modern list.

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