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Celebrations & people · 6 subtopics: Wedding party

Choosing and asking your attendants, their duties, who pays for what, and making the experience joyful rather than expensive.

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Thank-you gifts

A personal gift and a handwritten note thank attendants for their time and money.

  • Personal over expensive
  • Give at the rehearsal dinner
  • A note for each person
  • Cover costs you required
Open thank-you gifts

Vows, Toasts & Ceremony Kit

Every word for the big day, in one kit.

Write vows you’ll be proud to say, plan a ceremony that sounds like you, and give every speaker the words they need. Printable, and editable in Word.

  • 20 ceremony scripts
  • 10 vow templates
  • 14 readings
  • 10 toasts

Three versions: choose yours on Gumroad. Instant download.

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