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Wedding party: Choosing your wedding party

Choose the people closest to you; there is no required number, and mixed-gender parties are common.

The key points

  • Any number, including none
  • Honor attendants of any gender
  • Be honest about costs when asking
  • Other roles for people you love

Asking them

A note, a small box or a heartfelt conversation.

Other honor roles

Readers, ushers, a guest-book attendant or a candle lighter.

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