Wedding party: Choosing your wedding party
Choose the people closest to you; there is no required number, and mixed-gender parties are common.
The key points
- Any number, including none
- Honor attendants of any gender
- Be honest about costs when asking
- Other roles for people you love
Asking them
A note, a small box or a heartfelt conversation.
Other honor roles
Readers, ushers, a guest-book attendant or a candle lighter.




