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Setting your budget
Start from savings, what you can save monthly and confirmed contributions — not national averages.
- Add savings, monthly saving and confirmed help
- Subtract fixed costs
- Divide the rest by guests
- Keep a 5–10% buffer
Planning the wedding · 6 subtopics: Wedding budget & money
Setting a realistic total, splitting it across categories, who pays for what, hidden costs and saving without the day feeling cheap.
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Budget breakdown by category
Venue, food and drink usually take about half. Fund your top two priorities first and keep the rest simple.
- Venue, catering and bar: 45–50%
- Photo and video: 10–12%
- Attire and beauty: 8–10%
- Flowers and décor: 8–10%
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Who pays for what
Tradition assigned most costs to the bride’s family; today most couples pay for at least part, often with family contributions.
- Agree amounts and timing before counting help
- Ask what expectations come with money
- Put contributions in writing
- Thank contributors personally
05
Saving money
Guest count, day of the week and season make the biggest difference; dozens of small choices add up after that.
- Fewer guests
- Friday, Sunday or off-season
- Inclusive venues
- Seasonal flowers and digital paper
06
Tipping vendors
Check contracts first; many include gratuity. Tips are most expected for service staff, drivers, beauty teams and delivery crews.
- Read contracts for included gratuity
- Prepare labeled envelopes
- One person hands them out
- Reviews mean a lot to small vendors
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