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The booking order
Book the vendors who can only work one wedding a day first: venue, photographer, videographer, band or DJ, planner.
- Venue first
- Photographer, videographer, music
- Caterer and officiant
- Florist, cake, rentals, beauty
Planning the wedding · 6 subtopics: Vendors & contracts
Who to book, in what order, how to compare quotes, the questions that reveal the most and the contract clauses to read before signing.
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Comparing quotes
Give every vendor the same scope and compare all-in totals, not headline prices.
- Same date, hours and headcount
- Mandatory vs optional costs
- What changes with guest count
- Value, not just price
03
Vendor contracts
Every promise in writing: services, deliverables, payments, cancellation, substitution and overtime.
- Exact services and quantities
- Payment schedule and refunds
- What happens if they can’t perform
- Overtime rates
04
Caterers
Ask about service style, staffing, rentals, tastings, dietary handling and what is included in the per-person price.
- Plated, buffet, family style or stations
- Staff numbers and service charge
- Tasting and menu changes
- Allergy and cross-contact handling
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DJs and bands
A band brings energy and presence; a DJ brings range and lower cost. Ask about MC duties, breaks and equipment.
- Watch a real performance video
- Who acts as MC?
- Do-not-play list
- Sound for ceremony and cocktail hour
06
Vendor red flags
Vague replies, no contract, pressure to sign today and no verifiable reviews are reasons to keep looking.
- No written contract
- Prices that change
- Unclear who attends on the day
- Pressure tactics
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