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Vendors & contracts: DJs and bands

A band brings energy and presence; a DJ brings range and lower cost. Ask about MC duties, breaks and equipment.

The key points

  • Watch a real performance video
  • Who acts as MC?
  • Do-not-play list
  • Sound for ceremony and cocktail hour

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Should we hire a band or a DJ?

Bands bring live energy; DJs bring range and usually cost less. Watch real performance videos and ask who will MC.

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Which wedding vendors should we book first?

The venue, then the vendors who can only work one wedding a day: photographer, videographer, band or DJ, and a planner if you want one.

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What is the difference between an engagement ring and a wedding ring?

The engagement ring is given at the proposal and usually has a center stone; the wedding band is exchanged at the ceremony and is often plainer. Many people wear both.

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What is the first thing to book for a wedding?

The venue and date. Caterer, photographer and band or DJ usually come next.

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